Friday, November 29, 2024

ANS -- The Moral Challenge of Trumpism

This is an opinion piece.  What do you think?  Is his analysis correct?  I thought it was an interesting idea, but I'm not sure.....
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https://www.nytimes.com/2024/11/28/opinion/trump-values-maga-cabinet.html?campaign_id=9&emc=edit_nn_20241129&instance_id=140900&nl=the-morning&regi_id=61176643&segment_id=184413&user_id=757b2466486519bdc244559383d225bc

Opinion

 

David Brooks

The Moral Challenge of Trumpism

Nov. 28, 2024

A photo of Donald Trump, taken at sunset,  with flags and an orange sky behind him.


By David Brooks




Opinion Columnist

I admire Mitt Romney. He is, by all accounts, an outstanding husband and father. He built a successful investment firm by supporting successful young businesses like Staples. He served the public as head of the 2002 Winter Olympics and as a governor. As a senator, he had the courage to vote to convict Donald Trump twice, in the two separate impeachment trials, when few other Republicans did.

But as Noah Millman writes on Substack, people in the MAGA movement take a different view of Romney. In private life, Romney compliantly conformed to the bourgeois norms of those around him. In business he contributed to the bloating of the finance and consulting sector. As a politician he bent himself to the needs of the moment, moving from moderate Republican to "extreme conservative." As a senator, he sought the approval of the Washington establishment.

Millman's underlying point is it's not sufficient to say that Trump is leading a band of morally challenged people to power. It's that Trumpism represents an alternative value system. The people I regard as upright and admirable MAGA regards as morally disgraceful, and the people I regard as corrupt and selfish MAGA regards as heroic.

The crucial distinction is that some of us have an institutional mind-set while the MAGA mind-set is anti-institutional.

 

In the former view, we are born into a world of institutions — families, schools, professions, the structures of our government. We are formed by these institutions. People develop good character as they live up to the standards of excellence passed down in their institutions — by displaying the civic virtues required by our Constitution, by living up to what it means to be a good teacher or nurse or, if they are Christians, by imitating the self-emptying love of Christ. Over the course of our lives, we inherit institutions, steward them and try to pass them along in better shape to the next generation. We know our institutions have flaws and need reform, but we regard them as fundamentally legitimate.

MAGA morality is likely to regard people like me as lemmings. We climbed our way up through the meritocracy by shape shifting ourselves into whatever teachers, bosses and the system wanted us to be. Worse, we serve and preserve systems that are fundamentally corrupt and illegitimate — the financial institutions that created the financial crisis, the health authorities who closed schools during Covid, the mainstream media and federal bureaucracy that has led the nation to ruin.

What does heroism look like according the MAGA morality? It looks like the sort of people whom Trump has picked to be in his cabinet. The virtuous man in this morality is self-assertive, combative, transgressive and vengeful. He's not afraid to break the rules and come to his own conclusions. He has contempt for institutions and is happy to be a battering force to bring them down. He is unbothered by elite scorn but, in fact, revels in it and goes out of his way to generate it.

In this mind-set, if the establishment regards you as a sleazeball, you must be doing something right. If the legal system indicts you, you must be a virtuous man.

In this morality, the fact that a presidential nominee is accused of sexual assault is a feature, not a bug. It's a sign that this nominee is a manly man. Manly men go after what they want. They assert themselves and smash propriety — including grabbing women "by the pussy" if they feel like it.

In this worldview, a nominee enshrouded in scandal is more trustworthy than a person who has lived an honest life. The scandal-shrouded nominee is cast out from polite society. He's not going to run to a New York publisher and write a tell-all memoir bashing the administration in which he served. Such a person is not going to care if he is scorned by the civil servants in the agency he has been hired to dismantle.

The corrupt person owes total fealty to Donald Trump. There is no other realm in which he can achieve power and success except within the MAGA universe. Autocrats have often preferred to surround themselves with corrupt people because such people are easier to control and, if necessary, destroy.

In other words, MAGA represents a fundamental challenge not only to conventional politics but also to conventional morality. In his own Substack essay, Damon Linker gets to the point: "Trumpism is seeking to advance a revolutionary transvaluation of values by inverting the morality that undergirds both traditional conservatism and liberal institutionalism. In this inversion, norms and rules that counsel and enforce propriety, restraint and deference to institutional authority become vices, while flouting them become virtues."

I suspect that over the next couple of years we will see a series of running conflicts between institutionalists and anti-institutionalists — not only a power struggle over the Justice Department, the intelligence agencies, the schools and the institutions of democracy itself but also a values struggle over what sort of person we should admire, what values should govern our society. The battle is on for the hearts and souls of the coming generations.

The anti-institutionalists have advantages. It's much easier to degrade and destroy than to preserve and reform. We live amid a multidecade crisis of legitimacy, during which strong voices ranging from Oliver Stone's on the left to Tucker Carlson's on the right have sent the message that everything is rotten.

But character is destiny. An administration of narcissists will be a snake pit, in which strife and self-destructive scandal will snuff out effective action. Running things is hard, and changing things is harder, and it's rarely done well by solipsistic outsiders.

Those of us in the institutionalist camp will have to learn the lessons taught by George C. Marshall. Marshall, who served as chief of staff of the Army during World War II, and was an institutionalist through and through. He was formed by Army manners. The very core of his ethic was this: I will never put my own ambitions above the needs of the Army or the nation.

Yet Marshall was no standpatter. He didn't respond to threats from outside by clinging fiercely to the status quo. He was a comprehensive reformer. When he was asked to lead the Infantry School at Fort Benning, for example, he revolutionized the curriculum. He sent units out on maneuvers maps because in real war you always have insufficient information. He shifted military training toward mechanized warfare and nearly doubled the number of hours of instruction devoted to tactics. He spent his career pushing against the stifling traditionalism that could stultify his institution.

Today it really is true that the Pentagon is administratively a mess. It really is true the meritocracy needs to be fundamentally rethought. It really is true that Congress is dysfunctional and the immigration system is broken. But positive change will come from people who have developed a loving devotion to those institutions over years of experience, not people who despise them — the modern-day George Marshalls rather than the Pete Hegseths, Tulsi Gabbards and Robert F. Kennedy Jrs.

What kind of person do we want our children to become — reformers who honor their commitments to serve and change the institutions they love or performative arsonists who vow to burn it all down?

 

Thursday, November 28, 2024

Fw: How to deal with Trump supporters at your family holiday gathering

Dear ANS group -- it's a bit late, but maybe this will help make your holiday gathering more peaceful. Enjoy!
--Kim

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This holiday season, as many of us gather with our families and friends, some of us will confront a thorny situation: How to deal with our Trump-supporting relatives.

As we think about the past year, and look ahead to the next, it can be hard to completely avoid the topic of politics. And if your Trump-supporting relatives are anything like mine, they'll find a way to bring it up. They'll say something gloating or snarky – or even sincere – creating a powerful temptation for you to respond.

If your family is one where major political differences can be discussed calmly and respectfully, you're lucky. But not all of us can have productive conversations with loved ones who have gone down the path of Trumpian fascism in recent years.

Unfortunately, political arguments are a guaranteed way to ruin a family holiday and make things even worse. So, what can we do instead?

A few years ago, someone asked Dr. George Lakoff: "When my family gets together for the holidays, how do I avoid getting into a political argument with my conservative grandfather?"

 "Don't argue with your grandfather," Dr. Lakoff answered. "Instead, ask him to tell you a story about a time he did something good for someone else. Listen, and then ask him to tell you another one."

The simple but powerful idea, present in much of Dr. Lakoff's work: Empathy is the antidote to conservative thought. One major lesson I took from his answer: Even by stimulating a memory of empathy, you can help activate empathy in the brain. Through repetition, this can help change people for the better.

Is it possible to stimulate empathy? Yes!

"But researchers have discovered that far from being an immutable trait, empathy can be developed," reported the New York Times in 2018. "There are steps people can take to acknowledge their biases and to move beyond their own worldviews to try to understand those held by other people. Bonus: You'll make new friends along the way."

Click above for a gift link to this New York Times story

At the very least, opting to stimulate empathy rather than argument could result in a more pleasant holiday experience. And it's a subtle way to be be politically subversive without making a scene.

The problem with political argument

Besides, the science makes it clear: Arguing about politics is not very effective at changing anyone's mind. This is even true when the facts are on your side. "If the facts don't fit the frames in your brain, the frames in your brain stay and the facts are ignored or challenged or belittled," wrote Dr. Lakoff in "Don't Think of An Elephant: Know Your Values and Frame the Debate."

When you challenge a person's political opinions, they will generally perceive it as an attack on their identity – especially their moral identity. This will likely harden their position, since they're not just defending their political views, they are also defending their egos.

"One of the things cognitive science teaches us is that when people define their very identity by a worldview, or a narrative, or a mode of thought, they are unlikely to change—for the simple reason that it is physically part of their brain, and so many other aspects of their brain structure would also have to change; that change is highly unlikely," wrote Dr. Lakoff in The Political Mind: A Cognitive Scientist's Guide to Your Brain and its Politics.

Here are some ideas for handling potentially uncomfortable political situations this holiday season:

1.     Set Ground Rules. Don't hesitate to address the situation beforehand. Communicate to your family that politics are not welcome at the dinner table this year. You can say something like: "We have some very different political views in this family. So, for the sake of keeping the peace, let's not ruin our family holiday by arguing about politics. Please leave politics at the door." This may not work with every relative, but addressing the issue in advance could help set clear expectations and avoid in-person arguments.

2.    Divert to Empathy. If the holiday conversation veers toward argumentative and unsavory politics, flip the script. As Dr. Lakoff suggests, ask your relatives to tell a story about a time they helped someone else. When they finished, ask them to tell another one. Get that warm empathy buzzing. You may not be able to immediately change their opinions on the political questions of today, but maybe you can help change their brains a little bit by giving the gift of empathy.

3.    Take Care of Yourself. The holidays can be a hard time – emotionally and financially – for many people. And in the wake of this election, tensions are running higher than usual. Not all of us need or want to see our families during the holidays, and that's okay, too. Sometimes a good Friendsgiving – or Chinese food and a movie – is the best move. Don't hesitate to take a year off from the family dynamic if that's what you really need. Take care of yourself, and create a holiday memory that's healthy, meaningful and peaceful for you.

Don't Argue with Grandpa

Politics are not always an easy thing to push aside, especially now. They involve life and death issues, they trigger serious emotions and they're rooted in our most deeply held moral beliefs. Trump's fascism and bigotry make millions of Americans feel unsafe. But we probably won't get very far by fighting with the political opponents at our family dinner tables. Instead of arguing with grandpa at the dinner table this year, try empathy – or a raincheck.

How do you deal with politics at your family holiday gatherings? Got a story to share? FrameLab wants to hear it.


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Tuesday, November 26, 2024

ANS -- Should Democrats Abandon the Trans Community?

Here is one of this week's articles from Doug Muder.  Read it.  
--Kim


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Should Democrats Abandon the Trans Community?

If we run away, how far will we have to go?


During the stretch run of the presidential campaign, $37 million worth of Trump ads connected Kamala Harris to trans people, especially transwomen and transwoman athletes. It's hard to know whether those ads decided the election, but it's not crazy to imagine that they did. This has started a debate among Democrats about how to handle trans-rights issues going forward.

Republicans sense an advantage, so they will make sure those issues don't go away any time soon. Congresswoman Nancy Mace (R-SC) responded to Delaware electing transwoman Sarah McBride to Congress by proposing a bill to keep her out of women's bathrooms and locker rooms in the Capitol. [1] WaPo's Matt Bai laid out how this political trick works:

First, you single out someone transgender for unprompted cruelty. … Then you sit back and wait for Democrats to do the decent thing, which is to stand up for the right of any American to be left alone. At which point, Republican leaders step in to say, as House Speaker Mike Johnson did, that they're "not going to engage in silly debates about this," as if it were Democrats and not Republicans who are so obsessed with trans rights that they can't stop thinking about who's in the next stall.

Talk about obsessed: Of the current posts on Mace's X-timeline, 76 of the first 79 are about her bathroom bill. All since November 20.

Bai's model certainly captures how the issue played out in the recent campaign, as M. Gessen (who identifies as trans) observed:

In the wake of an election in which Donald Trump stoked fear about trans people — as in the much-discussed ad that warned "Kamala is for they/them. President Trump is for you" — Democrats are now debating how much the issue of trans rights hurt them and how fast they should retreat from it. Which is remarkable, because throughout her brief campaign, Kamala Harris was all but silent on the subject. It's not clear how much further Democrats could actually retreat.

Unfortunately, the answer to that question is obvious: Democrats could get on board the anti-trans train and start their own fear-mongering about trans people. My Congressman, Seth Moulton [2], is showing the way:

I have two little girls, I don't want them getting run over on a playing field by a male or formerly male athlete, but as a Democrat I'm supposed to be afraid to say that.

This is a tactic I remember well from junior high: If kids are picking on you for looking gay, find some kid who looks gayer and beat him up. Don't stand up to cruelty, just make sure you're on the inflicting side rather than the suffering side.

But while you're doing that, make sure you don't look cruel. So Moulton, who (like me) enjoys almost every kind of privilege American culture offers, is the victim here: People like him are "afraid" of the Big Bad Trans Community. But Seth himself is one of the few Democrats courageous enough to join in the smear against transathletes. He knows that the number of transathletes in women's sports is vanishingly small [3], that identified-male-at-birth kids who have taken puberty blockers don't have significant physical advantages over identified-female-at-birth kids, and that the only way Trump managed to find an example in the news that he could use to smear transathletes was to lie about a female Algerian boxer in the Olympics. But never mind that. His little girls are in danger and require his protection.

That's how the game is played: Don't attack. Just invent a "threat", pin it on the target group, and then "defend" against that threat. You know: "They're eating the dogs, they're eating the cats."

So let's not kid ourselves about what the choice is. Democrats can't just "stop spending so much time talking about trans issues", because we never did that. Whatever we say or do, Republicans are going to try to connect us to the trans community. The only way out of that box is to actively join the lynch mob.

Is that really what you want to do?

Josh Marshall offers a historical parallel: the 2004 election, when George W. Bush won reelection over John Kerry. Like 2024, 2004 was a very discouraging election for liberals. Bush had won in 2000 despite losing the popular vote, so it was easy to look on his administration — torture, war based on lies, etc. — as an aberration. America wasn't really like that. But then he got over 50% of the vote in 2004 (the only Republican to do so in the 21st century), so Democrats had a lot of soul-searching to do.

There's at least a decent argument that Democrats lost the 2004 election over gay marriage. It certainly wasn't the biggest issue. But Republicans, cynically and shrewdly, got state ballot initiatives banning gay marriage on the ballot in a number of key states. Ohio seemed like the keyest. … Who knows whether it actually turned the election. But it's not a far-fetched argument given how close the result was. There's no question that substantial majorities of voters opposed same-sex marriage rights at the time, though of course support varied from more liberal to more conservative states. …

I don't think you get to the Obergefell decision in 2015 without 2004 or the whole range of marriage equality activism in the first years of this century. In fact, I'm also certain you don't. And I guarantee it was an albatross and super annoying to tons of Democratic elected officials. It's possible it cost Democrats the 2004 election. It generated all sorts of agita and in many cases anger that LGBT activists were pushing the envelope so hard.

Marshall allows that the parallel isn't perfect, but it's also not totally off-base. Neither is the comparison to civil rights in the 1960s — Marshall didn't go there — when there were literal race riots in cities all over the country. Nixon won in 1968 largely because he could pose as the law-and-order candidate who would stand up to Black activism.

Once in a while, there's going to be a political price to pay for refusing to beat down on whatever group is unpopular at the moment. We can't ignore that price, but going the other way has a price as well.

One thing the gay-marriage comparison suggests is that we have no idea how trans issues will play in 2028 and beyond. Most voters in 2004 based their same-sex marriage opinion on ignorance: They did not know any gay couples with a public long-term commitment, so they had no basis on which to judge claims that same-sex marriage would lead to "the fall of Western Civilization itself". Same thing now: Most Americans don't know any openly trans people, so they're easy to demonize.

A few years down the road, most Americans probably will know at least one or two such people, plus a handful of trans celebrities. [4] The conversation may be very different by then.


[1] In the WaPo, Style (not Politics) columnist Monica Hesse wonders if Mace knows how women's bathrooms work.

Just so we're all on the same page, here's how public bathrooms work for women: Each restroom is cordoned off into multiple private stalls. Each stall has its own door, which fully shuts and locks. Each door either goes all the way to the ground or — more commonly — stops approximately 12 inches from the floor. This is not an open-plan urinal situation, is what I'm saying. This is a situation in which the most flesh anyone typically sees is a scandalous, tawdry swath of … ankle.

If, somehow, a sex pest were to infiltrate a women's room and do something creepy — like attempting to spy under a stall — then the women using the restroom would and should call security to have the sex pest removed. That would be true whether the culprit was a cis woman, a trans woman, a man or six koalas in a trench coat. Creepy behavior should be policed; mere existence should not.

If Mace's bill passes, though, it becomes someone's job to check up on the genitalia of restroom users. The government itself becomes the "sex pest".

[2] If you're a Democrat who believes in human rights, including trans rights, and you're thinking of running against Moulton in MA-6, please put me on your mailing list. I've been a very reluctant Moulton voter ever since he challenged Nancy Pelosi for Speaker in 2018. Politico wrote that Moulton looked like "a mansplaining young punk taking down a vastly more experienced woman", which is generally how I see him. (I understood why Pelosi faced criticism from the left, even though I disagreed with that criticism. But that's not where Moulton was coming from. He just wanted to be important.)

Moulton's anti-trans turn has to be about his larger ambitions, because it isn't forced by any local political necessity. Republicans didn't even bother to field a candidate in MA-06 this year, so Moulton won with 97% of the vote.

[3] Apparently, one of those rare transathletes is on the women's volleyball team at San Jose State. The WaPo outlines the current controversy there, as some schools are refusing to play against the Spartans. The article notes that the player meets the NCAA requirements for transwomen athletes (one year of testosterone suppression treatment), and quotes a rival athletic director:

I do think it is important to note, we have played against this athlete for the past two seasons and our student-athletes felt safe in the previous matches. She is not the best or most dominant hitter on the Spartans team.

[4] Slowing this process down is the core reason Republicans want to ban books like Gender Queer, a memoir that I learned a lot from. If you read such books, or attend plays like Becoming a Man, you may begin to think of people with nontraditional gender identities primarily as people. That will make it harder for Republicans to use fear to manipulate you.

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  • Anonymous On November 25, 2024 at 10:01 am

    This is a comprehensive, well-reasoned response to the reflex of running away from trans rights. The look back at the 2004 election's slew of state gay ban initiatives is particularly instructive. Yes, it cost Kerry the election. But it was followed by Obergefell nine years later. Sometimes there are political steps back before a greater social step forward.

  • Anonymous On November 25, 2024 at 10:40 am

    Anonymous, your response, too, is a well-reasoned one. I especially like your reminder that, "Sometimes there are political steps back before a greater social step forward." As a Democrat, I'm a big fan of onward and forward and upward.

  • Anonymous On November 25, 2024 at 3:14 pm

    There will also be unintended consequences in the so-called bathroom bill as there always are for laws based on fear and little research. Will it be illegal for a parent to take their opposite gendered child to a public single-gender bathroom? What about a caregiver with opposite gendered person with disabilities? Not every building has gender neutral facilities so what are people going to do in these situations?

  • Anonymous On November 25, 2024 at 6:46 pm

    Yes, please, someone primary Seth Moulton. So tired of his posturing.

  • Anonymous On November 26, 2024 at 3:16 am

    I'm very pro trans rights — I am a classical liberal and believe strongly in everyone's right to free expression, including when it comes to gender expression.

    That said, I think your post misses the mark on trans athletes. Women's sports were created because we are a sexually dimorphic species — it was created to honor a biological sex group, not a gender.

    By making disingenuous arguments like individuals who take blockers since puberty lack bio sex advantages, but then go on to cite a volley ball player who didn't start taking hormones until their late teens / 20s (long past the start of puberty), really speaks to the mismatch. Whether or not that athlete happens to be standout isn't a relevant factor.

    But most importantly to me, your post pretends that any alternative position is bigoted and lacks legitimacy. It presumes that the only correct or appropriate path forward is to reject the fundamental reason that women's sports exist. Women's sports do not exist because of gender or gender expression – they exist because we are a sexually dimorphic species.

    And this, in my opinion, is the actual failing of the Democratic Party — the adoption of inflexible positions that they react to any discussion of with derision and condescension.

  • Anonymous On November 26, 2024 at 5:45 am

    If Mace doesn't know how women's bathrooms work, where has she been going? Does she prefer men's rooms? Perhaps we should look into that….

    I heard on the radio (CBC) that the number of transgirls who want to play in girl's sports is less than one per state. Perhaps we should make sure we say how small the number is, because from what the Republicans are saying, you get the impression that there are millions of them. Maybe it will make the Repubs look silly.

    My other question — in response to Moulton's "run over my daughters on a playing field" — is, in middle school, aren't boys still smaller than girls? — Is he picturing some big 18-year-old muscle-man running over his ten-year-old girl? Maybe someone needs to introduce him to reality.

    –Kim Cooper

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